Comments on: Yongsan First Sergeant Convicted in Adultery Case http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/ Korea From North to South Sat, 26 May 2012 12:38:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Selph http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-435348 Selph Mon, 10 Oct 2011 14:58:15 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-435348 Lol- Thanks I needed that laugh. :smile: Lol- Thanks I needed that laugh. :smile:

]]> By: John in NY http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-435344 John in NY Mon, 10 Oct 2011 14:23:24 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-435344 Selph, just tell him his father is P. Diddy. The pride that swells up in him will protect him from the world. Selph, just tell him his father is P. Diddy. The pride that swells up in him will protect him from the world.

]]> By: Selph http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-435334 Selph Mon, 10 Oct 2011 13:13:49 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-435334 It's okay. You can watch him grow from a far. Click the link & maybe just oneday you guys will have a change of heart. It's been 3 years now too long to keep ignoring this. He's your Blood. Living & breathing. How can you ignore that? You have family that you won't acknowledge. It's really sad! It’s okay. You can watch him grow from a far. Click the link & maybe just oneday you guys will have a change of heart. It’s been 3 years now too long to keep ignoring this. He’s your Blood. Living & breathing. How can you ignore that? You have family that you won’t acknowledge. It’s really sad!

]]> By: Selph http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-435330 Selph Mon, 10 Oct 2011 12:43:56 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-435330 If you could help me in any way. My son Elias is 3 years old now. Starting to ask about his dad & I have no clue what or how to tell him about his father. Or why he won't ever know his dad or his family.  He is doing well from his surgery of the  cancer lump he had on the back of his head in 2009. No spreading. But I would like some family health history. I just can't help but feel helpless for my son. And I pray to God for his grace & blessings everyday. So any information would defiantly help. Thank You So much for your time. Djhonia Selph 404 771 2057 678 852 0273 Djhoniaselph@gmail.com Djhonia.Selph@us.army.mil Sent from my iPhone Sent from my iPhone If you could help me in any way. My son Elias is 3 years old now. Starting to ask about his dad & I have no clue what or how to tell him about his father. Or why he won’t ever know his dad or his family. 
He is doing well from his surgery of the  cancer lump he had on the back of his head in 2009. No spreading. But I would like some family health history. I just can’t help but feel helpless for my son. And I pray to God for his grace & blessings everyday. So any information would defiantly help.

Thank You So much for your time.

Djhonia Selph
404 771 2057
678 852 0273
Djhoniaselph@gmail.com
Djhonia.Selph@us.army.mil

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Sent from my iPhone

]]> By: Selph http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-390760 Selph Thu, 10 Jun 2010 02:30:12 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-390760 <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/" rel="nofollow">http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/</a> http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/

]]> By: Selph http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-390759 Selph Thu, 10 Jun 2010 02:29:47 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-390759 Hey, here are some updated pictures of Elias, Cuauhtemo’s son. I was just checking to see if you could put me into contact with any family member. I would like to get the paternity test done still and I would like to try for them to meet him, and if they want a further relationship then that would be fine. I’m sorry that everything had to happen under the circumstances that are at hand. But my intention was never to hurt anyone or be a problem. It’s just that i have my son now and i want him to know his other side of the family. Because of course he bi-racial and should know his heritage. But okay thank you. Please contact me back with any info if you could. I don’t want any money from any of you. None what so ever. Just trying to do the best thing for Elias. Pictures of Elias <a href="http://:http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/" rel="nofollow">:http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/</a> Hey, here are some updated pictures of Elias, Cuauhtemo’s son. I was just checking to see if you could put me into contact with any family member. I would like to get the paternity test done still and I would like to try for them to meet him, and if they want a further relationship then that would be fine. I’m sorry that everything had to happen under the circumstances that are at hand. But my intention was never to hurt anyone or be a problem. It’s just that i have my son now and i want him to know his other side of the family. Because of course he bi-racial and should know his heritage. But okay thank you. Please contact me back with any info if you could. I don’t want any money from any of you. None what so ever. Just trying to do the best thing for Elias.

Pictures of Elias :http://www.flickr.com/photos/50443422@N03/

]]> By: SCORPIO http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-1/#comment-332192 SCORPIO Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:54:10 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-332192 damn his friend took that album off..what were u afraid of Taylor? looks like u had to hide all the fun u both had with the h***ers u hired!! damn his friend took that album off..what were u afraid of Taylor?

looks like u had to hide all the fun u both had with the h***ers u hired!!

]]> By: Junior http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-331838 Junior Mon, 01 Jun 2009 03:51:03 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-331838 The really sad thing about your statement is that you really believe that, and that have learned to accept this lack of control and lack of responsibility as OK, normal, and acceptable, in a world where anything goes depending on how YOU feel about it- both in the society you come from, and the current Army culture in which you serve. This worries me more than you will ever be ever to fathom. It really is all about feelings, isn't it? The really sad thing about your statement is that you really believe that, and that have learned to accept this lack of control and lack of responsibility as OK, normal, and acceptable, in a world where anything goes depending on how YOU feel about it- both in the society you come from, and the current Army culture in which you serve.

This worries me more than you will ever be ever to fathom.

It really is all about feelings, isn't it?

]]> By: JON http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-2/#comment-331466 JON Sun, 31 May 2009 12:29:08 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-331466 Whats done is done. The sergeant was really a good leader until the dam relationship. He had issues but overall he would place himself before others and was leading troops the way they should be lead. All this that he was a playboy has nothing to do with the way he conducted himself on duty. What he did in his spare time has nothing to say on behalf of how he was and the way way he treated people. R.I.P SGT Gonzales. Whats done is done. The sergeant was really a good leader until the dam relationship. He had issues but overall he would place himself before others and was leading troops the way they should be lead. All this that he was a playboy has nothing to do with the way he conducted himself on duty. What he did in his spare time has nothing to say on behalf of how he was and the way way he treated people. R.I.P SGT Gonzales.

]]> By: ChickenHead http://rokdrop.com/2009/04/09/yongsan-first-sergeant-convicted-in-adultery-case/comment-page-1/#comment-329802 ChickenHead Thu, 28 May 2009 11:35:34 +0000 http://rokdrop.com/?p=12282#comment-329802 “I’m surrounded by idiots that flow from their societies within America into the Armed Forces where they are given an opportunity to disassociate themselves from their previous slum - worthless - crappy life, but they instead cling to it.” Upon further reflection, this quote SOOOOOOOO nailed many problems with today's society. But upon a further level of reflection, it occurred to me that maybe they AREN'T given the opportunity to disassociate themselves from their previous lives... ...but, in fact, are encouraged to embrace them... by short-term thinking politicians and self-serving "leadership". A generation (or two) ago, the military was a GREAT equalizer and "empowerer". This means that it didn't matter if you came from the farm or the ghetto, certain things were expected of you... and, if you didn't perform, they were beat into you. There was no paperwork-to-death-until-kicked-out-to-become-a-criminal... you either got on the program or you got your ass beat until you got on the program. Simple. At some point, you got on the program and became "an American"... maybe even one with an education... and you realized there was more to life than what your hometown offered you... and you were forced to realize that not everything that Ma and Pa (or your crack-smokin' friends) did was the best way... or even correct. No "diversity", no hyphenated-American categories with different rules... you just melted into the pot and did your job or you got the beat-down by those who knew the job and expected you to do your part. And when you got out of the military, you took your personal discipline and transformation to a citizen of "American culture" and higher education back to the sh!thole you came from and impressed your local-yocal friends, standing on the same street corner, with the man you had become... a man who was forced to pick up and wield the tools necessary to succeed in life. Fast forward... It seems no matter how screwed up and self-destructive the value system is today, politicians are standing in line to embrace it in the name of "diversity". This attitude has filtered down into the military where the goal has become to change the military to fit the soldiers instead of changing the soldiers to fit the military. Diversity has its place. That's why we eat pizza and tacos, celebrate St. Patty's day and listen to rap. The traditional Number One Reason for America's success has been to adopt the best parts of every culture while rejecting their faults. Not now. Embracing every part of every culture, no matter how broken, is not the answer... and it is self-destructive for the nation and the military. Forced diversity is bad... as is the thinking that everyone is a winner no matter what screwed up crap they pull off... and it is even worse when substandard cultural traits are somehow rationalized as equal in value based on the arbitrary measurement of skin color. And allowing military members (or American citizens) to think the broken parts of their culture are acceptable (and even worth championing) is a bazaar strategy for national unity... blatantly counter to national success. I could go on. You get the point. Argue with me at your own peril. “I’m surrounded by idiots that flow from their societies within America into the Armed Forces where they are given an opportunity to disassociate themselves from their previous slum – worthless – crappy life, but they instead cling to it.”

Upon further reflection, this quote SOOOOOOOO nailed many problems with today's society.

But upon a further level of reflection, it occurred to me that maybe they AREN'T given the opportunity to disassociate themselves from their previous lives…

…but, in fact, are encouraged to embrace them… by short-term thinking politicians and self-serving "leadership".

A generation (or two) ago, the military was a GREAT equalizer and "empowerer".

This means that it didn't matter if you came from the farm or the ghetto, certain things were expected of you… and, if you didn't perform, they were beat into you.

There was no paperwork-to-death-until-kicked-out-to-become-a-criminal… you either got on the program or you got your ass beat until you got on the program. Simple.

At some point, you got on the program and became "an American"… maybe even one with an education… and you realized there was more to life than what your hometown offered you… and you were forced to realize that not everything that Ma and Pa (or your crack-smokin' friends) did was the best way… or even correct.

No "diversity", no hyphenated-American categories with different rules… you just melted into the pot and did your job or you got the beat-down by those who knew the job and expected you to do your part.

And when you got out of the military, you took your personal discipline and transformation to a citizen of "American culture" and higher education back to the sh!thole you came from and impressed your local-yocal friends, standing on the same street corner, with the man you had become… a man who was forced to pick up and wield the tools necessary to succeed in life.

Fast forward…

It seems no matter how screwed up and self-destructive the value system is today, politicians are standing in line to embrace it in the name of "diversity". This attitude has filtered down into the military where the goal has become to change the military to fit the soldiers instead of changing the soldiers to fit the military.

Diversity has its place. That's why we eat pizza and tacos, celebrate St. Patty's day and listen to rap. The traditional Number One Reason for America's success has been to adopt the best parts of every culture while rejecting their faults.

Not now.

Embracing every part of every culture, no matter how broken, is not the answer… and it is self-destructive for the nation and the military.

Forced diversity is bad… as is the thinking that everyone is a winner no matter what screwed up crap they pull off… and it is even worse when substandard cultural traits are somehow rationalized as equal in value based on the arbitrary measurement of skin color.

And allowing military members (or American citizens) to think the broken parts of their culture are acceptable (and even worth championing) is a bazaar strategy for national unity… blatantly counter to national success.

I could go on. You get the point. Argue with me at your own peril.

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