One day while sitting in my office doing paperwork, the private (who had recently gotten engaged to his young Korean childhood sweetheart) came in and out of the blue asked me "Sergeant Major, how do you kiss?"

I was quite taken aback by the question and after a moment or two, trying my best to suppress the laughter that was building up inside of me, I said to the private "You mean you're about to be married and you haven't even kissed your bride to be?" He answered "Yes I have, but she keeps complaining to me that I don't know how to kiss."

I shifted around uneasily in my chair and again suppressed my strong inclination to burst out laughing as I thought to myself that this young man was dead serious in his question to his Sergeant Major. Here was a young man about to marry the young lady of his dreams, and he doesn't even know how to kiss her, or at least not to her satisfaction.

So I said to the private, "Well, Private ____, she obviously loves everything else about you if she's committed to becoming your wife, so I recommend you ask her how she likes to be kissed. I'm sure she would gladly show and tell you all about what pleases her in that department."

A few months after I retired the private contacted me from his new duty station in Fort Polk. He was happily married then, and still is today as an E-7 after 14 years of marriage. Once, he even called me and thanked me for the advice I gave him that day about his little dilemma, and reiterated his respect for me as his Sergeant Major and first line supervisor.

As for me, I'm just glad I controlled my urge to laugh, and in spite of the urge, I was able to impart some meaningful advice to him with obviously positive results.

Now, after reading this story about CSM Holder, I cannot help but wonder (had it been him that the private had come to for advice) if he would have taken it upon himself to personally explain, demonstrate, and conduct practical work with the private on the task of "kissing!"

Here is the story that Lemmy is referring to in his posting:
http://rokdrop.com/2008/10/22/1hbct-commander-off…
http://rokdrop.com/2008/11/16/colonel-thomas-grav…

Also so here is another case of some other possible officer shadiness going on:
http://rokdrop.com/2008/07/29/more-corruption-unc…

Also if you go through the USFK court martial results you will see that there is plenty of officers who get in trouble. A lot of them for DUI's:
http://rokdrop.com/?s=court+martial+results&x…

…so, for those of you who missed it, here it is again.

For a CSM and a solder,

talk of peniis size became bolder.

Then sarge reached ‘cross the seat

and grasped private meat.

For he was both toucher and Holder.

Some if someone were to assault your family or harm someone you love it is OK? After all, people make mistakes and shouldn't be judged for the rest of their lives.

So that after they all PCSed out of Korea – all of a sudden that video ceased to matter and they could carry on with their careers as normal?

Please contact your "special friend" and ask — I'm sure he/she knows the answer.